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Friday, September 3, 2010

Because we have something called "LIFE" :)




This was just another day, until one of my friends came to my system and opened her Gmail, to get one of her career changing document printed. Now this girl and me , we both have nice understanding and respect for each other in terms of maturity level(don’t know why , but this girl have some brains, especially when she is bombarding her quick witted sarcastic comments). Now why I am writing all this has nothing to do with my blogs or to my new hobby of writing something on anything.

According to the trend based on my past expeditions (off course my enlightened blogs), everything was somehow related to me or my to my experiences, but this time nothing is related to me except she is just a friend and we hardly know each other. But this episode is eligible for unlimited complexity.
So where is the problem?
Is there any problem with me????

A hell NO (except I am writing this blog thinking that I can create some history by provoking a revolution so probably YES!!!)
Is there any problem with this girl???

I don’t think so; she is a nice looking girl, a very sweet smile, very down to earth attitude, a typical average Indian girl.

So she opened her Gmail on my system , get her career changing document printed and left, till then there was no problem at all , suddenly I saw , somebody forgot to logout from her Gmail. Now I am publically accepting my mistake that I intentionally decided not to log her out and check her email(s).

This is really bad and one should not do this, and I am sorry for it as well (if you are reading this). But now when I saw her emails, I realized that this is the best thing I did in my life and to genuinely help somebody.

The idea is to make her realize that the path she opted for helping her is not the correct one and she should consult her friends or any anonymous buddy, who can actually help her to make her understand the actual meaning of life and self belief. Now why I opted my blog to convey my message to her instead of face to face conversation , is to secure her anonymity and to provide her some better replies to her problems .

If you are reading this , the only reason I am doing this because you wrote that you want to commit suicide, so sorry I won’t allow you, I want you to think about yourself , your family and friends , specially your mom and dad, they must have some dreams for you , once you’ll die , it would be all finished for you , but for your guardians, they will always curse themselves, they will always question themselves , about what went wrong until they die? You have brain, a complete body, a good education to support and make you survive in this competitive world. Suicide is never a good solution, we are human beings and we are programmed to blame others, I am sure you might be asking questions to god “why me?”but trust me even the richest and healthiest person asks the same question , this might hurt, but nobody knows you here, except you and me , trust me I won’t tell anybody about anything and I want you all to comment on my blog anonymously (only), so first what she wrote to some baba,guru ji, swami , maharaj or some false prophet ( and I am not challenging anybody “shraddha”)
Following is the letter , sent by her to some guru , and she got reply from some guru’s assistant , and trust me this “guru bhai “ replies not even worth posting here , coz it leads to one way only, I hope all my readers(so what if the count is only 20) are adult and understands everything. This is not a fairy tale of” Manohar kahaniya” or something this is a real example of psychological manipulation performed by some fake guru ,making use of a helpless mind.

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The letter is deleted as per rqst by the girl, and now she is not commiting any suicide, situation is in control

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Now she received a reply from some of the student of swamiji, assuring her to meet her , with walk the walk and talk the talk. And then she replies again.

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Letter is  deleted as per rqst by that girl
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Now she again gets a reply from this gurubhai, with all sweet diplomatic words, and his words clearly indicates that this guy is actually trying to gain her confidence. And asks her to call on his personal number and assures that he will meet her. then she again replies.
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letter is deleted as per rqst by the girl.







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See, I am not good at most of the things, and I am not here to prove my greatness, I am genuinely trying to help you, trust me once somebody said “Advice is what we ask, when we already know the answer” and this is true every bit.



Instead of ruthless questionnaires, I want you to search your answer within yourself; you would be amazed to know yourself. Everybody here is alone, even me, you have to believe me, I was the most popular guy in my school and college, I am sure you are aware about my popularity in our company , every body knows me , and I know everybody, and I don’t have a single person to rely upon, I always felt leftout at the end but I also know that I am different , I am better and I have something to prove here that I am the best…



So my mantra for you is to “believe that you are the best and spend your life proving it to others”



11 comments:

Diksha said...

Hi Lady..
Well i dont know u are tensed of what..but do u actually beleive that these guru's u r interacting with will give u a peacefula nd divine place to land on...
if this would have been the case will they be waistin time on these things..common!!! grow up..I dnt know u...
But will tell u a story(which rishi can confirm to be true) when i was in college i was a bold and defined girl who will never listen a No from anybody for anything...till 3.5 yrd this happened..I had very good frnds ,gud circle and gud repo...people were on my side in both the waysi;ll say(forcefully or willingly).
last 6 months of my college turned up so bad to me that i was about to go in depression...that was the time when i was holding my self as i did not wanted to go in depression..and my own close frnds and so called grp betrayed me...
Then there was someone in my college who gave me a sentence"never be a crazy ball as people will love to play with you..always be the clay ball so if somebody try to push u..u will stik wherever u are,the people will lose interest in playin with u..."
since then i am followin the same..and u wont believe..the so called grp of mine..when they saw i m growin nicely and i am not affected with wat happened they all want to come back to me..which Now i dont want...
recently also i had faced one of the similar situation but it being personal i will not share it here...but again the same sentence helped me alot...
bacha bas ek bat bolungi...zindagi jaise aati hai aane do....but use jeeyo apne tareeke se....:)
mujhe pata hai ye batei abhi tumpar koi asar nai karenge..na rishi ki na meri...but i know age jake u'll surely remember them,the same way as i do.....
love you...
god bless u :)

Avinash Verma said...

Well girl, i dont know what exactly happened with you, but according to rishi's prose , you dont need any help, you just need re invent yourself.
agar main rishi ki jagah hota to shayad kuch kar bhi nahin paata, aur this is the best way to get public responces on a very common uncommon problem,
mujhe lagta hai kayi log issi samasya se grasit hain, main aaj 34 saal ka ho gaya hoon, ek accha engineer hoon, ek accha insaan hoon, sharab nain peeta, gutka nahin khata, accha dikhta hoon , accha paisa bhi kamaata hoon, bohot saare dost bhi hain mere, aur un sabki shaadi bhi ho gayi hai, kuch ke to bohot cute bacche bhi hain..
unko dekhkar mujhe bhi lagta hai ki kaash meri bhi family ho aur kabhi kabhi main apne hi doston se jealous feel karta hoon.
mujhe do baar pyar hua, aur dono baar mujhe ladkiyon se dhoka mila, aur aaj tak mujhe koi ladki nahin samajh aa rahi hai.
maine bhi bhagwaan ko kosa, kayi baba logon ke chakkar lagaye, angoothiyan pehni ,par kuch nahi hua.

Now let me tell you what i did two years back, i adopted a 1 year old child, i am taking care of it, he is 3 yrs of age now, she is really an angel and i still remember day 1 of her cretch , she was crying when i was leaving her, now when she recite some cute cute alphbets and calls me daddy, it gives me immense satisfaction.

So i find a reason to live and explored my self.

take care girl ,life is actually very beautiful.

Great going Rishi , Good Job.

Rachin Gupta said...

HI girl,
Well I just wanna know y u r so much depressed?
I just wanna say that please keep smiling coz a b'ful smile on ur face will remove all d depressive things from ur mind and it will give u a great pleasure....

Kahne ko to saara jahaan apna hai, lekin teri ek muskurahat pe saara jahaan nisaar hai....

anshu said...

hey girl...
i actually dnt knw abt u nd also dnt knw what exactly happened vid u but i only want to say,delete it from ur mind dat suicide is the only solution..
according to this blog i cm to knw dat u r a sensible girl vid gud education nd also very important, a family.
life is very beautiful nd dere are many reasons to laugh in this world,i can understand the feeling of depression...all d things around us looks very ugly..but it is not the reality baby.
Do u think,the GURU vid whom u want to meet nd interacting is the one u can trust on..???These all r fake,they actually dnt knw abt themselves,,i m not hitting ur faith dear but it's true.
Life is a special gift of GOD nd nobody is allowed to waste this GIFT,,,,God is taking ur test nd u hv to prove urself.d'nt give up dear b'coz no body is happy in dis world nd life is not A BED OF ROSE,v hv to fight nd plz baby "DONT LOOSE YOUR HOPE".
in sabhi bato ko samajhne ki koshish karna kyunki yehi batein tumhe raasta dikhayengi.i knw ki ye sab likhna bohat aasan hai par jis jagah tum khadi ho vaha se har kisi ko gujarna padta hai.i knw u'll surely think abt it....
take care..
GOD bless u

Anurag Gupta said...

Dear Gal,

Life is a gift, and if you are having trouble seeing that, then you need to reach out for help because it is not normal to want to die. The normal, instinctive urge of every living thing is to thrive, to succeed, to live. Wrongful death is the opposite of all that. I know, because I had a friend once who was suicidal herself. Now, I look back and I still get emotional thinking of those horrible days because I see everything good around her and she says, "I would have missed all this!"

As a Hindu I believe strongly in the redemptive value of suffering. Suffering does not have to be a total loss, and neither does death–IF that death is accepted gracefully and patiently and naturally, not when it is forced/chosen.

If you do not believe in God or anything after life, then of course your view of this world and everything about life will be bleak, depressed and pessimistic. But our hearts know better; we know there is more. We know it when we’re in a moment of great love with another person, when we see something beautiful in nature, and when our hearts suddenly swell up with an urge for happiness and beauty that we cannot yet embrace or even define. There is a need, a longing, a desire that we try to express. There is proof right in the human heart’s inexpressible longings that there is Someone higher than us and more to life than just what we see here on earth.

If you have this beautiful view of things, then death becomes something meaningful and precious because it is the way to get to the next life–heaven. And if that sounds so silly to people today, what about the fact that once we all did not exist, and then we did? Couldn’t that sound silly? Yet, here we are. It is not silly. Therefore, death is a passage to the next life and not something to be feared if it is accepted naturally and in God’s own good time. If you bring it on yourself, however, there is no value in that because you are abandoning your part in the world before it is time.

All suffering has value if you are wise enough to see it. There are great people who can and do suffer with cheer and joy, and it isn’t forced. Suffering can bring out the worst in people, or it can bring out the best; it’s up to us. Suffering in itself is an evil, but good can and does come from it. Only with God is this sort of transformation possible.

I have suffered and I have seen others suffer much, much more than I have, and those who suffer with peace and acceptance are the greatest inspirations. I now know the difference between meaningless suffering and suffering that becomes valuable when it is inescapable and, yet, accepted with love.

Anurag Gupta said...

Cont....

Suicide is selfish because it is pretending that you can decide what is to be done with your life, which is part of something bigger than just you. You are created, not self-made, and you are connected to so many different people–even those you don’t know–in so many ways. We are all interconnected. It is selfish for anyone to think that they have the right to decide which pieces of the puzzle remain and which do not. It is also an act of despair, saying that the future will never improve, when, often, that improvement is just around the corner.

We are never given more than we can handle, so if you are at a breaking point and feel that you can’t go on, hold on for dear life because relief is around the bend. Trust. No, you didn’t choose to be created, but you were created, so now would be the right time to be grateful for this gift, to thank God for it, and to open your heart as best you can to the joys of life so you can discover what it is all about. Begin with an act of gratitude, and if you haven’t done that yet, what have you got to lose? I suggest you start to pray, even if you don’t believe at all, and watch where life takes you.

I have found that those who are suicidal–and I had one in my proximity–are those who are totally self-absorbed and are not reaching out to others who suffer more. I encourage you to get involved somehow with those who suffer–even at a soup kitchen–so you can give of yourself and learn that true happiness lies not in being perfectly fulfilled in every way here on earth, but in giving of yourself. If you do that, you will have the joy of living again. Use your sufferings in order to better understand others who suffer similar things; make good come of your present difficulties and it will blossom into something new and cherishable(even if it's perishable).

:)... If I can be of help I'm just a call away.

RISHI the gyan guru.. said...

Thank you all and i want you all read comment by anurag gupta as he did it again in his magical words.

and you i am sure you would be reading it soon, want to tell you something, you might be angry on me, you might not able to undestand this, but soon in near future you will get know that this is the best thing you have around you i.e LIFE :)

deepika said...

Hey,

I completely agree with Anurag, suicide is something I consider as selfish.The person who commits suicide is gone, free from the worldly traumas but who all are left behind to bear all this are his/her family members and people who really cared. Life is full of challenges and one has to, in order to survive overcome all the hurdles. Life is not smooth for anyone, everyone struggles. Some overcomes it few succumbs but life salutes them who try.
Life is the best gift and we are born humans, with brain, with creative ideas, with a zeal to learn. We have emotions and we have the power to overcome them. Let life come the way it is as Diksha said, but dont let it go like that. You are the designer, mould it the way you want. I know it all seems so bookish but trust me its tried and tested. You see so many people everyday, laughing smiling gossiping but ever pondered are they really that happy. There must be lots of problems in their life but that never stop them from living. 'Jeevan chalne ka naam'..You must have heard so true and please no one can help you come out of your miseries, you yourself know the answers and even if someone comes to you and asks you to follow what he/she wants you wont do it blindly. You will again think hundred time before doing that, then why seek someone elses advice. And these fake self styled gurus are nothing, they just make money and humiliate you emotionally.
Do whatever you feel right from your perspective but then dont forget that you are BLESSED, you were born a healthy human being, you had parents to take care and to protect you, you had a home, you got education, must have few good friends and a nice place to work. and then think about the unfortunate people who are born with physical deformities, without a shelter, whose parents have either died or abandoned them. Who all have to work hard just to get one times meal, cant pursue education, not even elementary forget about higher. Girls who got married forcefully at an early age and bear kids, cant go out or do anything on their own...want to hear more..there is lot of pain out there in the world and almost everyone is suffering but people are still living. Its the "hope" that is making them keep moving and going on. You are born a wonderful human being, please respect life and people around you and give life a second chance. Wish you a beautiful life ever after. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Hey,

I completely agree with Anurag, suicide is something I consider as selfish.The person who commits suicide is gone, free from the worldly traumas but who all are left behind to bear all this are his/her family members and people who really cared. Life is full of challenges and one has to, in order to survive overcome all the hurdles. Life is not smooth for anyone, everyone struggles. Some overcomes it few succumbs but life salutes them who try.
Life is the best gift and we are born humans, with brain, with creative ideas, with a zeal to learn. We have emotions and we have the power to overcome them. Let life come the way it is as Diksha said, but dont let it go like that. You are the designer, mould it the way you want. I know it all seems so bookish but trust me its tried and tested. You see so many people everyday, laughing smiling gossiping but ever pondered are they really that happy. There must be lots of problems in their life but that never stop them from living. 'Jeevan chalne ka naam'..You must have heard so true and please no one can help you come out of your miseries, you yourself know the answers and even if someone comes to you and asks you to follow what he/she wants you wont do it blindly. You will again think hundred time before doing that, then why seek someone elses advice. And these fake self styled gurus are nothing, they just make money and humiliate you emotionally.
Do whatever you feel right from your perspective but then dont forget that you are BLESSED, you were born a healthy human being, you had parents to take care and to protect you, you had a home, you got education, must have few good friends and a nice place to work. and then think about the unfortunate people who are born with physical deformities, without a shelter, whose parents have either died or abandoned them. Who all have to work hard just to get one times meal, cant pursue education, not even elementary forget about higher. Girls who got married forcefully at an early age and bear kids, cant go out or do anything on their own...want to hear more..there is lot of pain out there in the world and almost everyone is suffering but people are still living. Its the "hope" that is making them keep moving and going on. You are born a wonderful human being, please respect life and people around you and give life a second chance. Wish you a beautiful life ever after. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Well this is your another publicity stunt ,m i dnt believ this , you must be doing this for increasing your viewers , you can't help anybody , this is a lie and you should not bring such fake things into picture.

I had respect for you prior to this blog , not anymore, you change my thoughts for you.

You are one insensitive human being and you should not deserve all this talent because you are waisting it by creating controversies like that.

Dont get into others personal life. koi mare chahe jiye, it should not hurt you.

stay out of it

Abhishek Shukla said...

HEY!!!
You removed the spice of the blog!!!
:(